{"id":2275,"date":"2025-04-03T09:04:47","date_gmt":"2025-04-03T09:04:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/florafinearts.com\/?p=2275"},"modified":"2025-08-07T02:45:48","modified_gmt":"2025-08-07T02:45:48","slug":"social-media-not-fun-anymore-stay-and-be-consumed-or-walk-away","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/florafinearts.com\/vi\/social-media-not-fun-anymore-stay-and-be-consumed-or-walk-away\/","title":{"rendered":"M\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u2013 Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n vui n\u1eefa: \u1ede l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 b\u1ecb nu\u1ed1t ch\u1eedng, hay r\u1eddi b\u1ecf?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>S\u00e1ng nay, JVevermind, m\u1ed9t Vlogger \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea7u m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh t\u1eebng r\u1ea5t th\u00edch, \u0111\u00e3 chia s\u1ebb m\u1ed9t clip d\u00e0i n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n vui n\u1eefa, v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi m\u00e0 n\u00f3 mang l\u1ea1i. C\u0169ng nh\u01b0 JVevermind, t\u1eeb n\u0103m 2019, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 sau \u0111\u1ea1i d\u1ecbch, c\u1ed9ng v\u1edbi h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 t\u00e2m linh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n d\u00f9ng m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/florafinearts.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/IMG_7812-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-2277\" srcset=\"https:\/\/florafinearts.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/IMG_7812-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/florafinearts.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/IMG_7812-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/florafinearts.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/IMG_7812-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/florafinearts.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/IMG_7812-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/florafinearts.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/IMG_7812-9x12.jpg 9w, https:\/\/florafinearts.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/IMG_7812-750x1000.jpg 750w, https:\/\/florafinearts.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/IMG_7812-563x750.jpg 563w, https:\/\/florafinearts.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/IMG_7812-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><em>\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 chi\u1ebfc ly \"Ego Free\" (Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1i t\u00f4i) \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c in h\u00ecnh b\u1ee9c tranh \"Ni\u1ebft B\u00e0n\" c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p>B\u1ea1n b\u00e8 h\u1ecfi: \"M\u00e0y cai m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u00e0?\", m\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi: \"Kh\u00f4ng, hi\u1ec7n gi\u1edd m\u00ecnh \u0111ang \u1edf nh\u00e0 nu\u00f4i con, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec c\u1ea7n n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng d\u00f9ng, khi n\u00e0o c\u1ea7n th\u00ec l\u1ea1i d\u00f9ng\". \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi th\u1eadt t\u00ecnh. B\u1edfi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i s\u1ef1 h\u1eefu \u00edch c\u1ee7a m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i (c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi AI b\u00e2y gi\u1edd). Trong m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i, v\u1edbi t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng digital agency \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, ch\u1ea1y nh\u1eefng chi\u1ebfn d\u1ecbch digital \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean t\u1ea1i VN cho nh\u1eefng nh\u00e3n h\u00e0ng l\u1edbn, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ed1i c\u00e3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1eb1ng m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u00e3 nu\u00f4i s\u1ed1ng c\u00f4ng ty v\u00e0 gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Tuy nhi\u00ean, ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f3 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t r\u1ea1ch r\u00f2i gi\u1eefa vi\u1ec7c d\u00f9ng n\u00f3 v\u00e0o c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch ri\u00eang t\u01b0, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi th\u01b0\u01a1ng hi\u1ec7u c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n, m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 kinh doanh, r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00e0 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i xu h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ed1i c\u00e3i n\u00e0y. Tuy v\u1eady, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 chuy\u1ec3n ho\u00e1 v\u00e0 d\u1ecbch chuy\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng, c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00ec c\u00f3 m\u1ea5t, trong tr\u1eafng c\u00f3 \u0111en, trong s\u00e1ng c\u00f3 t\u1ed1i. Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5t. Khi ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c t\u1eeb m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta m\u1ea5t \u0111i s\u1ef1 c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng v\u00e0 b\u00ecnh an n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Trong m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch m\u00ecnh m\u1edbi vi\u1ebft g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y, m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u00e3 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng c\u00e1i t\u00f4i, kinh doanh c\u00e1i t\u00f4i v\u00e0 c\u00e1c thu\u1eadt to\u00e1n m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ed5i b\u00f9ng, kh\u00edch t\u01b0\u1edbng, khu\u1ebfch \u0111\u1ea1i c\u00e1i t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ee1 n\u00e0o. Nh\u1eefng thu\u1eadt to\u00e1n m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, x\u00e9t v\u1ec1 t\u00ednh to\u00e1n v\u00e0 m\u00e1y m\u00f3c, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u1ea5t ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu x\u00e9t v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t, n\u00f3 r\u1ea5t \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t thu\u1eadt to\u00e1n nh\u1eb1m nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng v\u00e0 mua b\u00e1n c\u00e1i t\u00f4i. V\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ai l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng m\u1eafc v\u00e0o c\u00e1i b\u1eaby c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. Cho t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t l\u00fac, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec JVevermind n\u00f3i, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n ho\u1eb7c ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t, ho\u1eb7c \"n\u00f3\" (m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i) ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. Nh\u01b0ng c\u1ea3 hai vi\u1ec7c d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>V\u1eady l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, v\u1eabn s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng n\u00f3, v\u1eabn h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1ee3i t\u1eeb n\u00f3 m\u00e0 b\u1edbt s\u1ee9t m\u1ebb, b\u00ecnh an h\u01a1n, ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt h\u01a1n v\u00e0 d\u1ea7n t\u1edbi ch\u1ed7 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n b\u1ecb n\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n n\u1eefa? D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, m\u00ecnh chia s\u1ebb hy v\u1ecdng m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 \u00edch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng kinh doanh, kh\u00f4ng s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c ki\u1ebfm ti\u1ec1n hay c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t h\u00e3y \"\u0111\u0103ng xu\u1ea5t\" kh\u1ecfi n\u00f3. T\u1eeb n\u0103m 2019 cho t\u1edbi 2023, t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n r\u1eddi b\u1ecf n\u00f3. M\u1ed7i n\u0103m m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n, v\u00e0o \u0111\u00fang ng\u00e0y m\u00f9ng 1 ho\u1eb7c 30 T\u1ebft, m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o g\u1eedi l\u1eddi ch\u00fac t\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e2u m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng g\u1eb7p. \nLi\u1ec7u m\u00ecnh s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 \u1ed5n kh\u00f4ng? \nR\u1ea5t \u1ed5n ch\u1ee9! Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed trong th\u1eddi gian n\u00e0y, m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00f4i l\u00fac v\u1eabn l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c t\u1eeb xa, m\u00ecnh v\u1eabn t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm th\u00f4ng tin tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 m\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n. V\u00ec m\u00ecnh nh\u1eadn ra l\u00e0, 99% th\u1eddi gian m\u00ecnh d\u00f9ng m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 xem l\u1ea3m nh\u1ea3m v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. V\u00e0 khi \u0111\u00e3 im l\u1eb7ng t\u1edbi g\u1ea7n 5 n\u0103m, m\u00ecnh th\u1ea5y vi\u1ec7c t\u1ef1 \u0111\u0103ng g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ec7n ng\u1edb ng\u1ea9n v\u00e0 h\u01a1i bu\u1ed3n c\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0110\u1ebfn n\u0103m 2023, m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i quay tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00ec l\u00fd do c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, m\u00ecnh v\u1eabn ch\u1ec9 ch\u1ee7 y\u1ebfu d\u00f9ng n\u00f3 v\u00ec m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u00f4i l\u00fac ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u0103ng \u1ea3nh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y 100% l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh nh\u1eadn di\u1ec7n ra m\u00ecnh, kh\u00f4ng v\u00ec m\u1ed9t m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch g\u00ec kh\u00e1c. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 l\u00e0m trong nh\u1eefng d\u1ef1 \u00e1n m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh g\u1eb7p li\u00ean mi\u00ean nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111i\u1ec7n \u1ea3nh, \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c, ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt m\u00e0 \u1edf r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c, c\u1ea3 c\u1ea5p qu\u1ed1c gia v\u00e0 to\u00e0n c\u1ea7u, nh\u01b0ng g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 m\u00ecnh hi\u1ebfm khi \u0111\u0103ng \u1ea3nh ch\u1ee5p v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng l\u00ean t\u00e0i kho\u1ea3n c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, b\u1edfi \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh ch\u1ee5p \u1ea3nh v\u1edbi h\u1ecd. Nh\u1eefng \u1ea3nh v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 m\u00ecnh trong \u0111\u00f3, ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 \u0111ang trong l\u00fac l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>T\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ee5p \u1ea3nh v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng, sau \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u0103ng l\u00ean m\u1ea1ng v\u00e0 n\u00f3i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ec7n quan tr\u1ecdng hay \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng g\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh an hay gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, th\u00ec m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n nhu c\u1ea7u \u0111\u00f3 n\u1eefa. R\u00fat kinh nghi\u1ec7m t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n \u0111\u0103ng \u1ea3nh m\u00ecnh sang B\u1ec9 ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi C\u00f4ng Ph\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 h\u00f4m sau m\u1eb7t m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ea7y tr\u00ean b\u00e1o. H\u1ebft s\u1ee9c phi\u1ec1n cho m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 cho b\u1ea1n. Th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 trong m\u00e1y m\u00ecnh nhi\u1ec1u v\u00f4 k\u1ec3, v\u00ec ch\u1ee5p \u1ea3nh th\u00ec c\u0169ng vui m\u00e0, nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ee5p t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, ch\u1ee5p cho vui l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c kh\u00e1c, c\u00f2n ch\u1ee5p \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u0103ng n\u00f3 l\u00ean m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch khoe m\u1ebd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Khi m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb nghi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng \u1ea3o \u1ea3nh \u0111\u00f3, th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i thu\u1ea7n tu\u00fd v\u00ec c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ec7n ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. M\u00ecnh bi\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng. \nCho n\u00ean, n\u00f3i l\u00ean m\u1ea1ng ai c\u0169ng l\u00e0m m\u00e0u, ai c\u0169ng ph\u00f4ng b\u1ea1t l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang. Ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh ch\u01b0a quan s\u00e1t \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m sao s\u1ed1ng th\u01b0 gi\u00e3n gi\u1eefa ch\u1ed1n ph\u00f4ng b\u1ea1t th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Khi \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00e1y ph\u00e1t tin, m\u00e1y t\u1ea1o ra tin t\u1ee9c, th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng v\u1eady. Cho n\u00ean c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i b\u1eadt ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 l\u1ecdc nhi\u1ec5u v\u00e0 tin \u0111\u1ed3n. V\u00e0 t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i m\u00e1y ph\u00e1t nhi\u1ec5u. M\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng, nh\u01b0ng m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi tin \u0111\u1ed3n kh\u00f4ng? C\u00f3 ch\u1ee9. Tin \u0111\u1ed3n c\u00f3 \u00e1c kh\u00f4ng? C\u00f3 ch\u1ee9. V\u1eady m\u00ecnh x\u1eed l\u00fd th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M\u00ecnh th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh r\u1eb1ng sao m\u1ea5y \u00f4ng b\u00e0 l\u00e0m truy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng th\u00ec khi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n r\u01a1i v\u00e0o kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng l\u1ea1i x\u1eed l\u00fd k\u00e9m v\u1eady? \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u00ecnh lu\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. N\u00f3 tu\u1ef3 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi.\nKhi b\u1ea1n quan ni\u1ec7m r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \"kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng truy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng\", th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch x\u1eed l\u00fd n\u00f3. C\u0169ng trong m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, khi n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y, m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 vi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng chuy\u00ean gia t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng truy\u1ec1n th\u00f4ng, s\u1edf d\u0129 h\u1ecd n\u00f3i m\u1ea1nh mi\u1ec7ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, l\u00e0 b\u1edfi h\u1ecd ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng r\u01a1i v\u00e0o kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng ho\u1eb7c kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7 l\u1edbn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 x\u1eed l\u00fd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Gi\u00f3 b\u00e3o gi\u1eadt c\u1ea5p 12, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gia c\u1ed1 nh\u00e0. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ea5t, s\u00f3ng th\u1ea7n, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u1edf g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9 b\u1ea1n coi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \"kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng\". Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn \u1edf m\u1ed9t g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9 tinh th\u1ea7n, suy x\u00e9t n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7n ch\u1ee9ng hay theo nh\u00e2n qu\u1ea3, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng \u0111\u00f3. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng c\u00e1i kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0 khi \u0111i qua n\u00f3, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh r\u1eafn r\u1ecfi, m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd h\u01a1n bi\u1ebft ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o, v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn ra c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh. Tr\u1eeb khi b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn mu\u1ed1n b\u00e1m v\u00edu, n\u00edu k\u00e9o, ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng c\u00e1i \"t\u00f4i\" c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i b\u1ea1n \u0111ang h\u1ecfi, t\u00f3m l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ecdc nhi\u1ec5u v\u00e0 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua tin \u0111\u1ed3n? C\u00f3 l\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng g\u00ec hay b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng tin nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a t\u1eadn m\u1eaft nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y, ngay c\u1ea3 khi b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y t\u1eadn m\u1eaft \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt ph\u00eda sau c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c. B\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh, ngay c\u1ea3 khi c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch v\u1ec1 kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, m\u00ecnh v\u1eabn ch\u1ecdn im l\u1eb7ng. V\u00ec m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n, l\u00fd do v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c r\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c. Cho n\u00ean, c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u, nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi n\u00f3 khi n\u00f3 di\u1ec5n ra \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi sinh m\u1ea1ng v\u00e0 b\u00ecnh an c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. C\u00f2n n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng, h\u00e3y c\u1ee9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi quan s\u00e1t.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Trong t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i tu t\u1eadp, c\u00e1i c\u1ea7n tu nh\u1ea5t ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u00fd ngh\u0129. \u00dd ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 l\u1edbn h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft. Gi\u1eef m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u00fd ngh\u0129 l\u00e0nh, ngay khi th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh kh\u1edfi l\u00ean m\u1ed9t suy ngh\u0129 ch\u1eb3ng l\u00e0nh n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y d\u1eebng n\u00f3, chuy\u1ec3n h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u00f3. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m v\u1eady th\u00f4i, nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00f3 nh\u1ea5t r\u1ed3i c\u0169ng d\u1ea7n t\u00ecm ra manh m\u1ed1i.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m kinh doanh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00e1n kh\u00f3a h\u1ecdc, di\u1ec5n vi\u00ean, ca s\u0129, ho\u1ea1 s\u0129... nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng khai th\u00e1c s\u1ef1 ti\u1ec7n d\u1ee5ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng y\u00ean \u1ed5n v\u1edbi n\u00f3, khi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng con bot ch\u1ec9 th\u00edch n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ecba? C\u00f3 l\u1ebd c\u00e1ch hay nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 d\u00f9ng n\u00f3 \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 v\u1eeba ph\u1ea3i, ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt, kh\u00f4ng m\u00e0u m\u00e8, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e1nh b\u00f3ng v\u00e0 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng v\u00e0o m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t. M\u00ecnh th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3. C\u1ee9 th\u00eam m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00fang m\u1ef1c tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd b\u1edbt \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ecba. Quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 ch\u1ecdn c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3 hay kh\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1i c\u00e2u m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh th\u1ea5y v\u1eeba \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ecba v\u1eeba ngu ng\u1ed1c nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng? \"B\u1ecdn hay n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ea1o l\u00fd th\u00ec s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0... lol\". M\u00ecnh d\u1ecbch \"lol\" \u0111\u00fang ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 l\u00e0 \"laugh out loud\". Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ed1ng r\u1ea5t vui. Ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ea1o l\u00fd nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea1o v\u00e0 l\u00ean m\u1ea1ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ef1c qu\u0103ng c\u00e2u n\u00e0y v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m cho c\u00e1i bi\u1ec3n m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ecba h\u01a1n bao gi\u1edd h\u1ebft.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>B\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eebng ng\u1ea1i n\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i hay chia s\u1ebb ra m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ebd. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh ngay \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, nh\u01b0ng t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ed3i. \u0110\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a \u00fd ngh\u0129. Ngay c\u1ea3 khi m\u00ecnh ch\u01b0a l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3i ra nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p, \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean r\u1ed3i. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n nh\u1edb l\u00e0, h\u00e3y gi\u1eef cho h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111i theo nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1eebng l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i. C\u00f2n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1eb1ng l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t n\u1ebbo, l\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111ang n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ea1o l\u00fd c\u00f3 t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ecba. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t cho h\u1ecd, nh\u01b0ng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd n\u00f3i, v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ed1t cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe th\u1ea5y n\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>M\u00ecnh b\u1eadt c\u01b0\u1eddi khi \u0111\u1ecdc m\u1ed9t status c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t anh g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y n\u00f3i, sau khi \u0111\u1ecdc th\u1ea5y c\u00e2u n\u00f3i tr\u00ean, anh ph\u1ea3i \u0111i t\u00ecm h\u1ebft c\u00e1c c\u00e2u \u0111\u1ea1o l\u00fd m\u00e0 anh \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u0111\u0103ng v\u00e0 xo\u00e1 \u0111i. V\u1eady l\u00e0 b\u1ea1o l\u1ef1c m\u1ea1ng \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng r\u1ed3i \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n s\u1ed1ng t\u0129nh l\u1eb7ng d\u1ea7n, ch\u00e2n th\u1eadt d\u1ea7n, kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb nh\u1eefng \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng chi ph\u1ed1i, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd v\u1eabn bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch d\u00f9ng m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng m\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ea7u. M\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 \u01b0? M\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf t\u00e0i kho\u1ea3n c\u0169 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, t\u1ea1o m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i m\u1edbi, v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c. T\u1eeb khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ecdc m\u1ed9t feed to\u00e0n nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n th\u1ecb phi, c\u00f4ng k\u00edch, khoe m\u1ebd, m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c l\u00e0m phi\u1ec1n, ch\u1ec9 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ebd (\u00fd m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 to\u00e0n ng\u1eafm tranh \u0111\u1eb9p t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh follow). Khi b\u1ea1n \u0103n c\u00e1i g\u00ec, th\u1ee9c \u0103n \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd th\u00e0nh b\u1ea1n. C\u0169ng v\u1eabn l\u00e0 FB, nh\u01b0ng gi\u1edd m\u1ed7i khi \u0111\u0103ng nh\u1eadp n\u00f3, m\u00ecnh th\u1ea5y vui v\u1ebb, t\u01b0\u01a1i \u0111\u1eb9p, d\u00f9 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 v\u00e0i likes cho m\u1ed7i post.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn mu\u1ed1n ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c duy tr\u00ec t\u00e0i kho\u1ea3n c\u0169, nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u0169 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb \"m\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ea7u\", c\u00f3 l\u1ebd b\u1ea1n n\u00ean ch\u1ecdn c\u00e1ch \"hide\" \u0111i nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ecdc g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y m\u1ec7t, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng d\u00f9ng m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c \"h\u00f3ng h\u1edbt\" hay \"khoe m\u1ebd\" n\u1eefa. Ch\u1ec9 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb 2 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 th\u00f4i, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u r\u1ed3i.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>S\u00e1ng nay, JVevermind, m\u1ed9t Vlogger \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea7u m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh t\u1eebng r\u1ea5t th\u00edch, \u0111\u00e3 chia s\u1ebb m\u1ed9t clip d\u00e0i n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n vui n\u1eefa, v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi m\u00e0 n\u00f3 mang l\u1ea1i. C\u0169ng nh\u01b0 JVevermind, t\u1eeb n\u0103m 2019, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 sau \u0111\u1ea1i d\u1ecbch, c\u1ed9ng v\u1edbi h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 t\u00e2m linh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n d\u00f9ng m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i n\u1eefa.<\/p>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":2277,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[234,4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2275","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-art-of-now","category-blog"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/florafinearts.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/IMG_7812-scaled.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/florafinearts.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2275","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/florafinearts.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/florafinearts.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/florafinearts.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/florafinearts.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2275"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/florafinearts.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2275\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2283,"href":"https:\/\/florafinearts.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2275\/revisions\/2283"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/florafinearts.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2277"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/florafinearts.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2275"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/florafinearts.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2275"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/florafinearts.com\/vi\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2275"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}